So I was talking to a colleague at work..he was sitting by himself-not at the staff room having his break. I asked him why he didn’t want to go into the staff room to have his break.. Interestingly he said he didn’t want to talk to people he didn’t know downstairs.
I was quite surprised .. this colleague in my opinion was a very talkative person and seemed to get along with everyone …I thought he would love to talk to people in his break..
He said it made him tired and took energy away from him..
He said he was actually an introvert…but because of work..he has to act extroverted.
It made me think…we do live in a world where extroverts seem to thrive in….work places need collaboration..communication and also working with difficult people…Unless you work in a job where you worked by yourself or work all by yourself..it is hard NOT to avoid people.
I think I am quite introverted..as sometimes I do not have energy to talk to people I don’t know…and I just really want to be by myself… But at other times I really do get bored or feel lonely…and then I will call up a friend to arrange a meeting.
I also established that we are all probably a bit of both…I guess it’s a spectrum…we aren’t always one or the other…but certain situations may force us to be more of one than another. It can be hard….
Have you ever thought what kind of person you are?